Why Choose Divorce Mediation?

Less Money

Divorce mediation is a cost-effective alternative to traditional divorce litigation. Instead of paying for prolonged court battles, attorney fees, and other associated costs, mediation allows you and your spouse to split the cost of a neutral mediator. By focusing on resolution rather than conflict, mediation helps you save significantly, ensuring that both of you can move on without the financial burden of a lengthy legal process.

Less Time

Traditional divorce proceedings can drag on for months, even years, due to court schedules and complex legal battles. Divorce mediation, however, is a faster process. With a focus on reaching a fair agreement in a timely manner, mediation sessions often take just a few hours, and many couples resolve their divorce in a matter of weeks. This allows you to move forward with your life much more quickly.

Less Stress

The emotional strain of divorce is already overwhelming, and the added stress of litigation can make things worse. Divorce mediation offers a less adversarial environment, where both parties work together towards a resolution. This collaborative process reduces conflict and promotes mutual understanding, making it easier to maintain peace of mind and preserve respect, especially if children are involved. Mediation helps make the divorce process smoother and more manageable for everyone.

The Cost of Mediation Vs. Litigation

Mediation
Approximate Price
Initial Retainer
$4000*
Hourly Price of Mediation
$400/hour
Average Cost of Divorce Mediation
$4000 - $7000
*Unlike Divorce Litigation, most mediations can be done within the timeframe of the retainer. Sometimes the mediation goes a few hours beyond the original retainer when substantial assets are involved such as pensions, 401ks and IRA's.
Litigation
Approximate Price
Hour-Based Retainer
$5000 - $10000
Hourly Price of Divorce Attorney
$700 - $1000/hour*
Average Cost of A Litigated Divorce
$13000 - $17000**
*The hourly rate reflects the combined total for each of the couple’s divorce attorneys **Average cost is based on the average cost of divorce attorneys in New York state as well as the required court fees

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Benefits That Divorce Mediation Offers


Divorce mediation offers many advantages over traditional litigation, including:

  1. Cost-Effective: Divorce mediation is significantly more affordable than hiring two separate attorneys and going through a lengthy court trial. You and your spouse can split the costs of the mediation process, saving you both money in the long run.
  2. Confidentiality: Divorce mediation is a private process. Unlike court proceedings, which are open to the public, all discussions during mediation remain confidential. This ensures that sensitive information about your marriage and divorce remains private.
  3. Faster Resolution: Divorce litigation can be a long, drawn-out process. Mediation, on the other hand, typically allows couples to resolve their issues in a matter of weeks or months, rather than years. This faster process helps you move on with your life more quickly.
  4. Less Conflict: The adversarial nature of divorce litigation often causes unnecessary stress and conflict. Mediation promotes a more cooperative approach, where both parties work together to find solutions that benefit everyone involved, including children.
  5. Control Over the Outcome: In mediation, you and your spouse have control over the final agreement. Instead of leaving decisions to a judge, you can negotiate the terms of your divorce in a way that suits both parties.

Why Choose Divorce Mediators Who Are Attorneys?

Choosing an attorney to mediate your divorce offers several key benefits. At East End Divorce Mediation, all of our divorce mediators are experienced attorneys with a deep understanding of family law. Here’s why that matters:

  1. Legal Professionals: Our mediators bring over three decades of legal experience, ensuring that they can provide sound legal advice and guidance throughout the mediation process. They understand the legal complexities of divorce and can help you navigate potential challenges, making sure you understand your rights and obligations.
  2. Enforceable Agreements: When you work with an attorney-mediator, you can be assured that any agreement you reach is legally binding and enforceable in court. This provides peace of mind that your settlement is not only fair but also legally sound.
  3. Neutrality with Legal Insight: As experienced attorneys, we can offer a neutral perspective while providing clear explanations of how legal principles apply to your case. Our goal is to help you reach a fair resolution while safeguarding your legal rights.
  4. Efficient Process: Attorney-mediators are skilled at moving the process forward efficiently, reducing the overall time it takes to finalize your divorce. This streamlined approach can save you both time and money compared to a traditional litigation process.

Why Hire Us?

Less costly then typical divorce
Less time than a contested divorce
We File All Court Paperwork
A proven track record of successful mediations
Less stress than a contested divorce
Transparent Fees
Skilled Divorce Attorneys
Six Convenient Locations in Suffolk County

A Peaceful Path to Divorce Resolution

Divorce can be a difficult and emotional process, but it doesn’t have to be an expensive, time-consuming, and adversarial journey. At East End Divorce Mediation, our East Hampton Divorce Mediation services are designed to help you and your spouse find common ground and resolve key issues in a peaceful and constructive manner. With over three decades of experience in family law, we provide personalized, effective mediation services that allow you to move forward with your life while preserving your dignity and peace of mind.

Divorce mediation provides a fair and cost-effective solution, keeping you out of the courtroom and allowing you to control the outcome of your case. If you’re seeking a less stressful alternative to traditional divorce litigation, our experienced attorney-mediators can help you reach an agreement that works for both parties.

Frequently Asked Questions About Divorce Mediation

What is divorce mediation, and how does it work?

Divorce mediation is a process where a neutral third party (the mediator) helps both spouses negotiate and resolve key issues in their divorce. The mediator facilitates discussions and assists in reaching a mutually acceptable agreement without the need for court intervention.

Do we need attorneys for divorce mediation?

While hiring an attorney is not required for mediation, it is highly recommended that each spouse consult with their own attorney before finalizing any agreements. This ensures that your legal rights are protected and that the agreement is legally binding.

How long does divorce mediation take?

The length of the mediation process depends on the complexity of the issues being discussed. On average, many couples can resolve their divorce in a few weeks or months, with just a few mediation sessions. This is much faster than the lengthy timeline associated with litigation.

Is mediation suitable for all divorces?

Divorce mediation can be effective for most divorces, especially when both spouses are willing to negotiate and communicate. However, if there are issues of abuse or extreme conflict, mediation may not be the best option. In such cases, litigation may be necessary.

What happens if we can't reach an agreement during mediation?

 If you are unable to reach an agreement through mediation, you still have the option to pursue litigation. Mediation is a voluntary process, and while many couples find it effective, it is not a guarantee of resolution.

What are the costs associated with divorce mediation?

Divorce mediation is typically much more affordable than traditional divorce litigation. The cost of mediation varies depending on the complexity of your case, but overall, it is a more cost-effective option for couples seeking a peaceful resolution.

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